Break ups are never easy, whether it comes out of the blue or something you've seen coming for a while.
So you've been moping around feeling sorry for yourself, its painful and you re wondering what to do.
Well may be its time to take action! It doesn't have to be over for good, take some steps to try and get him back.
Step 1: Don't be tempted to keep calling him.
To appear desperate to get him back is the worst thing you could do,only make contact if its really necessary,if you keep contacting him he might feel like hes being harassed and that's the last thing you want, show dignity and let him see you can cope without him! Of course if he wants to talk,you could suggest going for a coffee as friends to talk things through, but don't let your emotions take over think before you speak you don't want to say or do the wrong things if your upset and emotionally charged!One thing not to do is keep apologizing.
Step 2: Have a good think.
Don't be too hard on yourself but look at what went wrong in the relationship,was there anything you did wrong?Sometimes we do things without even realizing,a stress at work or being tired can make us grumpy and take it out on our loved ones for example.
May be you weren't communicating enough or you were a bit un-trusting of him its up to you to question yourself, see if there is anything you would do differently if you could go back, its fine if you have made mistakes, everyone does! Step 3: Get out more.
Do some things you've thought about doing but never got round to doing,catch up with some friends,take up a hobby or do something of interest.
Its a positive step and takes your mind off missing him so much! Be strong,once he sees that that your getting on with things,sees you smiling, hes going to wonder what hes been missing while you've been apart! Play a little hard to get but don't go overboard, he'll remember why he fell in love with you in the first place! Well there is just a few tips for you, hope its been of some help,if you re still looking for more online help there is guides around to help, cupids cure is worth taking a look at, good advice and tips to get your ex back and keep him for ever!