Your break up was so upsetting! It was as if you and your ex were total strangers and not lovers at all.
You were screaming at each other, insulting each other, and saying the most awful things to each other.
It was really ugly! Now you want to get your ex back, but how on earth can you get your ex to fall in love with you again? Let me put your mind at ease.
At the moment, your ex feels as if he/she really hates you - he/she cannot believe the nasty things you said, and feels that he/she will never be able to forgive you.
However, you won't have to try very hard to get your ex to fall in love with you again - do you know why? Because, if you let nature take its course and leave your ex entirely alone for now, then your ex will sooner or later feel that love for you again anyway.
It works like this.
Right now, your ex is spitting mad with you - this is normal - everyone feels like this after an argument.
However, if your ex doesn't see you or talk to you for a while, this will allow your ex to think things over very carefully and eventually get over all the hurt and anger that he/she feels towards you.
So, don't make any contact with your ex and watch what happens.
Now don't sit around waiting for this to happen - it could take some time - go out and have fun, and do all the things that you would normally do - in other words, just live your life as usual.
Keep telling yourself with each day that goes by, that you are that much closer to get your ex to fall in love with you again.
Keep yourself busy over the coming days with anything that makes you happy.
After a while you will notice that you are not feeling so depressed anymore, but are actually confident and really happy again.
This will keep your spirits up and make you think more positively about your situation.
After a little while, when your ex is well and truly over the trauma of your break up, you will probably get a message from him/her saying that you should meet.
This is perfect - play your cards right, and you will get your ex to fall in love with you again.