After your ex left, you were likely heartbroken and confused.
You've tried, unsuccessfully, to get over them, and your mind continues to reel with the question "how can I get my ex back?".
The possibility of getting them back seemed, while remote, still possible.
But then the worst thing you could ever imagine happens - they move on to someone else.
This certainly means all hopes of getting them back are now gone, right? Wrong.
While it will be difficult, it is possible to affirmatively answer "yes!" to that burning question "can I get my ex back?" Read on to find out how.
The first thing you must do is stop trying to contact your ex.
If they've moved on, it is obvious that your attempts to reconnect with them have been, up to this point, unsuccessful.
Stop now before you become the butt of a private joke between your ex and their new flame.
This is the time to make some major self improvements.
Think back on your relationship to anything you and your ex fought about.
Were there things they mentioned that they wished you would change? Certain behaviors that simply drove them mad? These are things that you will need to work on to make yourself more appealing, and not only will this make your ex take a second look at you, it will also make you a more likable, well rounded person in general.
Spend your time with people who make you happy, and more importantly, make you laugh.
If you've been wondering endlessly "how can I get my ex back", the answer lies in improving you.
No matter what the end result, this is the absolute best thing you can do.
It will make you happier, boost your self-confidence, and show your ex exactly what they are missing out on in a life without you.
There is a good chance that your ex is missing your calls and attempts at contact - even though they are with someone else.
You must also be sure that they will notice the positive changes that you have made in your life and be curious about all the new things you have going on.
This will make them rethink the breakup.
Chances are, the new flame in their life is just a rebound fling, and they will be back where they should be in no time at all - with you!
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