Do you want your ex to think about geting back together wih you?  If you do, you'll want to behave in such a way that promotes that.

Every relationship has flaws and when serious problems arise that produce added stress, a hurtful break up can occur.

If you want to work things out, you have to look at the big picture and realize that your ex and you are destined for better times.

If you real feel like patching things up with your ex, there are a few simple and easy steps that you need to take.

Here are three easy tips to get your ex to consider getting back together:

1. Never act like a stalker and make nonstop calls to your ex.  It's important to give them some space to process what happened.  It's alright to talk about your feelings but don't be pushy.  Both you and your ex will need time alone, so try to keep your distance for a while.

2. Try to be positive and cheer yourself up.  In most cases, people become very depressed and withdrawn after a split.  Focus on your good qualities ang be confident that you can handle this heartbreak.  Try to smile and remember, a trying time builds charachter.  Try and behave in such a way that your ex would find honorable.

3. If you should happen to meet your ex, don't feel intimidated or get overly emotional.  Because you probably share some of the same friends, it's not uncommon that you may run into your ex at a party or local pub.  Try to be as pleasant as possible, and don't let on about how bad you feel inside.

These are just some of the strategies that can help pave the road to reconciliation. Getting back with your ex may not be as difficult as you think.  If you are lucky enough to get a second chance, don't take it for granted and always work hard to keep the relationship meaningful.