Going through a breakup will leave you with a lot of unanswered questions.
After you've given the split some thought, you may decide that you'd like to work on repairing the relationship.
However, if you're like most men you'll have a lot of questions about the best way to go about doing that.
One common question I get repeatedly is, "I want my ex girlfriend back.
Should I text her?" This article will help you handle texting the right way.
If you read to the end, you will be given a link to an excellent resource that can walk you step-by-step through the process of getting your ex girlfriend back.
Should I Text My Girlfriend If I Want Her Back After A Breakup? After the initial breakup, your first goal should be to create some space.
The reason for this is two-fold.
First, it allows your ex girlfriend to miss you.
Second, it allows both of you to get control of your emotions so you don't make any hasty decisions or do anything you'll regret later.
To create space, you need to accept the breakup.
In terms of texting, send your ex girlfriend one short message stating that you agree with the breakup and think it's best to give each other space.
If you did something wrong such as cheating, lying, or simply over-reacting, you should apologize briefly in your text.
Keep it short and don't apologize over and over.
Next, you'll want to break off contact for a couple weeks.
Don't text your ex during this time.
If she texts you, then you can be polite and respond, but keep it short.
You can tell her something like you're busy, but you'll get back to her when you have some time, or you can say something like, "It's great to hear from you Kaley, but I really think we should take some time for ourselves right now.
Maybe we can get coffee and talk in a couple weeks.
" This becomes extremely effective at helping you get your ex girlfriend back because it shows you're not needy or desperate and puts the thought in her mind that she could end up losing you forever.
It turns the tables and puts her in the position of trying to figure out ways to get YOU back.