"I miss my ex", you are saying, after a difficult relationship break up, and you ask yourself "what should I do?" Could you be thinking this way at this moment? Well, don't worry; there are many other girls like you who are passing through the same period.
There is nothing more normal than missing your ex; in fact it is just part of your suffering when you are trying to get over a break up.
Some girls want to meet their ex a final time, others want to try and revive the old relationship.
They feel that they have missed out on what they were sure was true love.
If you think this is your case, you will find below, some tips to help you win back your relationship.
Are you sure that what you have tried to so far has not actually pushed him further away? You have no doubt tried everything you can think of to win him back.
Are you sure that what you have done so far in trying to persuade him to understand how much you miss him has just served to chase him further away, instead of making him want to come back to you.
When you call him and he hears how sad you are when you say how much you love him and miss him you can't blame him if he thinks you are acting out of desperation.
Do you think that anybody wants to spend their time with someone who is sad and needy? Obviously he is going to look for someone whose presence they enjoy; someone who is happy and confident and certainly not sad and needy like you are at present.
Have you been calling him and crying to let him know how sad you are that he has gone? Or have you been pestering him with messages to say how much you miss him? If you have you certainly haven't given him the time to forget you! Just stop contacting him for a week or so to give him the time to realize that he misses you.
Use this period of no contact to your own advantage.
Work on sorting yourself out.
Start by rebuilding your self confidence.
Go and change your hairstyle and make yourself look great.
When you look good you will be more confident and you will feel better too.
Go out with your girlfriends and enjoy yourself.
Do some things that give you pleasure.
This will all help you to be more positive about how you are thinking.
Your mind will be less occupied by the fact that you have lost your boyfriend.
You will start focusing on the positive points that can make you happy and confident, like you were when you first met him.
When he first fell in love with you it was not an accident, so get back to being that person he knew when your relationship started.
Now you should be in the right state of mind to call him and invite him round for a coffee.
He will have the opportunity to see how you have suddenly changed and he will be delighted to see that you have gone back to being the person he was so attracted to when you first met.
Take care to guard your emotions; don't forget that he left you because you were miserable so don't let him see that side of you.
So cheer up if you are still feeling "I miss my ex".
You see that there are many other ways to to help you to get your ex back.
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