You break up...
time goes by...
your ex finds someone else...
but you are stuck.
You can't get over your ex and know that they're the one for you.
What's the way out? How do you slowly but surely get your ex back to where they belong - in your arms? If your ex is giving you the cold shoulder by ignoring you completely ever since the break-up, there must be a reason for their behavior.
Maybe they're just not ready to face you? Or could it be that you've called them once too often, making them pull away from you? When we try to push too hard, the other usually ends up pulling away.
Is this the case? Figure out what's going on and then try these strategies to get your ex back: 1.
Focus on yourself first, instead of your ex.
You're hurting and need some time to heal emotionally.
Spend some time away from your ex for a couple of weeks after the break-up and be good to yourself.
This'll give your ex a chance to think about you and miss you.
2.
While staying away from your ex, use the opportunity to analyze what went wrong in the relationship.
Try to look at the situation from your angle, as well as from your ex's perspective.
Who goofed up? Was it you or your ex, or maybe both of you? 3.
Come what may, don't show your desperation.
You don't want your ex to know that you're desperately missing them and want them back.
Instead, try sending out subtle feelers and wait for them to respond.
4.
If you're positive that your ex still loves you, hold back.
Don't get tempted to make the first move.
Let your ex make a move.
This will ensure that your ex appreciates and values you more, since they did 'all the hard work' to get you back, whereas in reality, you did all the work to get your ex back!