Handling a breakup is tough but seeing your ex-girlfriend dating another man is tougher.
It feels like a kick in the stomach.
But, if you loved her truly and are completely convinced that she is the one for you then there is hope! Most men do the mistake of expressing their profound love in vain and badmouthing the new man in their ex-girlfriend's life.
Trust me, nothing of this sort will help.
In fact they'll further alienate her from you.
Here are some tried and tested methods that can help you get your ex-girlfriend back from another man.
But the process could be time taking so don't lose your patience.
Surprise her with your behavior: She will probably expect you to create a scene or pressurize her to get back to your life.
Give her a dose of surprise.
Stay calm and composed.
At least make it seem that you can accept the reality and move on in life.
This will surely give her a shock as this is certainly not what she expected you to do.
Do not badmouth the man in her life: Most men do the mistake of badmouthing the new man in their ex-girlfriend's life.
This will make her feel that you are behaving in an immature and selfish manner.
Instead, make it appear that you are happy that she has found her match.
Wait for the bubble of romance to burst: No matter how happy and content your ex-girlfriend seems with the new man in her life, the bubble of romance will burst sometime or the other.
You can wait till that time to reappear in her life and give her a shoulder to lean on.
Get back in touch with grace: If you both are not in talking terms after your breakup then it is important that you start communicating benevolently.
Drop an email stating that you are feeling bad about the way things ended between you two.
If possible, apologize and propose friendship without sounding too pushy.
Respect her boundaries and do not try to intrude.
She will appreciate your move.
Rebuild a solid friendship: Start rebuilding your friendship without making her feel that you are actually, trying to get her back into your life.
Acknowledge your mistakes and let her see the changes: During friendly conversations, tell her subtly that you understand why she broke up with you.
Tell her that you are happy for her.
At the same time, let her notice the changes in you.
Make use of your past experience: You know your girlfriend better than the new man in her life.
Make use of your past experience and do things that make her really happy.
This will remind her of the good times spent together and she will want to get back into those times again!