I am new here and want to share with all that my experience in life. I am starting with my love history.

It is always hard to get over the ex-boyfriends when he broke up with you. I had been in love with a guy for years and he broke up with me like he never liked me. I was so hurt and felt so frustrated for like 1 year. Now I am ok with it. I have to thank my friend Jane that she told me to stay away with him, no contact for at least a month. I did it but it was really hard. And now I want to share this with all girls who have been dumped by their ex-boyfriends.

If it is possible, stop calling him or answering his calls when you are not so sure about your feelings for him. Don't take anything your Ex ever said or did personally, because nothing your Ex ever said or did was about you. Even if your Ex downright blames you for everything that went wrong in your relationship, realize their statement is only coming from who they are, which has absolutely nothing to do with the person you are.

Regardless if you want to get back together with your Ex, just be friends, or just get over the obsessive thinking - remember your sole purpose is to realize who you are, restore your sense of balance, and reclaim your personal power. If you do all of this work just to manipulate your Ex into responding the way you want them to, it may work for a very short period of time. But I guarantee your Ex will pick up on the fact that your intentions are not genuine, and you will lose your personal power. Not only that, but when you genuinely become who you are, you attract the right kind of people to your life. And maybe your Ex is not the person you are meant to be with! And the only way you will know if you are meant to be with your Ex or anyone else is if you are genuinely who you are.

Try your best to understand that you are doing all of this work for no other reason than to realize who you are, restore your sense of balance, and reclaim your personal power. If you do all of this work in order to manipulate your Ex, and make them want you back, your Ex will subconsciously sense your intentions, because at one point or another, you will slip and let your intentions be known without realizing it. When this happens, you will give all of your power back to your Ex, and will have to start all over again with Step 1.

I have referred to some tips online for how to get over the ex and realize that I can do this too. Hope my article does help!