Relationships are ending all the time.
Pull out your copy of the latest celebrity magazine to see for yourself.
It happens all the time, all over the world.
There can be tons of different reasons and tons of different situations, but there a few extremely common things that can explain why lovers leave.
Why Lovers Leave - Men Men leave relationships for a few big reasons that are essentially the same thing.
They want to be admired.
If you are not offering your man admiration, he is going to feel inadequate and will leave.
Think about it, how much did you admire your man in the beginning of the relationship? Odds are you were constantly admiring your man and he knew it.
He also knew it when you stopped admiring him as much.
Your man may have complained of nagging or even used some other words to describe it.
The big problem is not the nagging; it is what the nagging represents.
It represents that you do not admire him so much...
that he is somehow not able to satisfy you anymore.
This is a huge killer to a man's ego and self esteem, and odds are he will leave and try to find someone that will admire him.
If you are thinking about your ex boyfriend and wondering to yourself why lovers leave, you need to think about how much you were admiring your man towards the end.
Why Lovers Leave - Women The biggest thing women want from a relationship is not nice things, expensive homes, and big diamonds, it is appreciation.
Women want to be appreciated for everything they do...
not just the big things, but the little things too.
If your girlfriend feels like you do not appreciate her, then she will wonder why you are with her; as well as why she is with you.
If she is feeling unappreciated, think about the first guy that comes along and shows her some appreciation.
She will be in his arms and admiring him in no time...
after all he DOES appreciate her.
Women really do put up with a lot of crap, and they will continue to do so if they are appreciated in the relationship.
Do not use this in a negative way though.
You have to honestly appreciate what your girlfriend does for you.
There are many aspects that contribute to why lovers leave.
This is no way a comprehensive list.
This is however the main ideas and most reasons can be traced directly back to these two problems.