You sit night after night watching television and not really seeing the program because your mind is on the man you feel is gone forever. Thoughts of him with someone else nearly drives you crazy. If you could only turn back time to those golden moments when he was so much in love with you. At that time it never occurred to you that you could be so unhappy. Your friends tell you that you should move on with your life and begin dating other men, but you only want the man that you have lost. Many women fall into this way of thinking after a breakup, but it does not have to be this way. You can win your ex boyfriend back after you have given up hope. Fortunately, there is a crucial technique to regain his love.

The first thing you have to do is to get him to notice you again. As long as you sit at home and wait for him to call, you have no chance of making him desire you again. Dating someone else that you would just be using as a tool to get your ex back would be a cruel thing to do. He might fall in love with you and you do not want to be responsible for hurting someone else the way your ex boyfriend has hurt you. So what can you do to regain his love? First of all, you must get rid of your neediness. Before you met him you were not dependent on any man for your happiness. You had your own life and you lived it the way you chose.

This is the woman your ex fell in love with. To win your ex boyfriend back after you have given up hope, you will have to be strong enough to make him see that you can go on without him. Go look in the mirror and see the woman you are now. Not just on the outside, but on the inside. Now remember back to the woman you were before you met and fell in love with the man that you cannot let go. Where have you changed? It should be easy to see both on the outside and the inside. If you want to regain his love, you need to become that woman again. It will take some work, but if it gets your ex back it will be worth it.

Just making these changes will not necessarily get back the man you love. You will have to show him and make him believe that you are the woman he fell in love with again. Think about how you attracted him at the start. You probably ran into him at one of his favorite hangouts and maybe did a little flirting; he was attracted to you and the chase was on. You need to get yourself looking as near to the way you looked when he first met you and go out with friends and run into him again. If he was attracted once, he will be again.