If you want to get ex girl back, it is about sharp and precise execution of actions to get results.
As much as it might be a emotion-ridden time and calmness is the last thing you feel, you need to handle those feelings and get on with the plan.
First figure out whether you really want to get ex girl back.
As they say, be careful what you wish for, you may get it.
If it is just emotions and you realize that there is no future in the relationship, then it is better to move on and focus on other goals in your life.
If after thinking through, you are still sure that you want to get ex girl back, then put your mind to it and give it a shot.
Don't just walk up to her or call her on the phone and blurt out asking if she is interested in getting back together again.
It may work, but tough because your girl is going to find it so lame.
And it leaves you in such a pathetic position.
Now that is NOT what we want.
What we want is for her to know that you are not hung up over her, and you are moving on in life.
We need her to look at you and see what she is missing out in life by letting you go.
You may not feel this way.
But you need to collect yourself and take the precise actions necessary for her to think like this.
Attend the same social events that she is attending.
Better still if you can bring a casual date with you.
Engage your ex girl in casual conversation there.
Remember sharp and precise actions.
Not over-exaggerated ones that will just aggravate her more.
When she sees that you are moving on, she may actually get possessive and jealous and start realizing that she still has feelings for you.
If this happens, then it is a naturally healthy way of re-igniting the relationship instead of looking needy.
If it does not happen that way, then this is a relationship that may not work, and it may be best for you to move on.
Its best to get over the hurt now instead of extending the agony.