Are you a woman who has been struggling to prevent your relationships from falling apart? If this is you, then this article may be for you.
We as humans have a way of making things more complex than they need to be.
What makes it worse are our misconceptions that are deeply rooted in society and get in the way of our being rational.
Are you familiar with the saying: Men use love to get sex and women use sex to get love? There is a lot of truth to this and the thing is, it does not have to be like this.
What this statement does is reflect the way we think.
That is that men need and want sex more than women and that sex will help make men happy.
The truth is that this in reality is not really true.
Men and women really have the same desires for sex but in our society men are encouraged to have a more aggressive behavior towards sex.
For this reason men are used to satisfying their sexual desires.
Women have grown up being told they are supposed to be good little girls and are encouraged to hold back their desires.
It's interesting that half of our society think they do not have to control their urges and the other half thinks that their urges are wrong.
If you want to have a great and loving relationship, you should re-think the concepts that you have learned while growing up.
Anybody will leave their relationship if their desires are unfulfilled.
The truth is that just about all people wish to be fulfilled in more ways than just sex.
If you want to have your own long term loving relationship, you will need to have spiritual, physical and emotional connections.
These three items are a must for a great long term relationship to succeed.
Who does not want to feel accepted, desired and understood and most importantly loved by their partner? What can happen is when one or more of these needs are not met, the relationship can suffer and a break up could be next.
So if you are trying to find a way to prevent your relationship from faltering, then remember to make the connections with your man with all of these needs and you will find that both of you will be so much more happier and committed to each other.