Through a lapse of judgment you've lost your girl and now she is the only thing you can think about.
There are some changes you need to make before you can set out to win her heart back and the time of separation will give you time to reflect on the steps you need to take.
Be careful of spilling out your heart to mutual friends as they could backfire on you in the event they share confidences with your girl that you are not ready to reveal to her.
First of all examine the reasons for the breakup.
Did you fail to do a particular thing or was it something you did do? Hopefully you'll come to the conclusion that the mistake can be repaired.
A simple matter of correcting the matter may be enough.
Simply take care of the matter and then apologize with all sincerity.
However, in your endeavors to win your girl back this is only the first step.
Remember to take into consideration that she is owed an apology even if the matter cannot be fixed to her satisfaction.
If she is willing to accept your apology then you can start working on making sure your girl is willing to accept you back into her life.
You don't want to have unrealistic expectations if she is not willing to entertain the idea.
If she is still angry with you it will be that much more difficult to get back into her good graces and show her what a good guy you are.
The process may take a while and it will be important you maintain an attitude of patience.
Talk with her tenderly and in a loving manner.
Don't be impatient or try to bully her into quickly reconciling with you.
Let the qualities in you that attracted her in the first place shine through.
If she remembers exactly how you used to be before the rift in your relationship her heart will be softened and she may be willing to come back to you.
During conversations with her, be vigilant in really listening to her wants and desires.
Most importantly let her share her feelings without interrupting and overwhelming her with yours despite your overwhelming wish to have her back.
Bossing her around is not the way to win her back.
During this process you should start to notice that you are having a positive effect on her.
Conversations will be starting to occur more frequently with loving behavior on her part.
You'll start to become a fixture in her life again.
If she starts to initiate contact with you and makes an effort to seek you out, you'll know your efforts are working in winning your girl back.
She'll be desirous of your company and attention.
Following these guidelines will assure that you will keep your girl by your side for a long, long time.
Don't get complacent and start doing the same things you did when you lost her.
Be sure not to take her for granted again and find yourself back in the same position of wanting but not having your girl.