You are wondering one key question, that is, Why does my ex never want to end the conversation? Have you ever been in this place before? Your recently lost ex is constantly trying to get the last word in, and always wants to talk about the negatives? Sometimes it is human nature for people to want to talk it out.
But for some people, and maybe this is you, fighting is very painful, and you do not want to talk about anything negative if possible.
I understand this feeling.
I put myself in that category, and sometimes I have to push myself to just communicate.
And you need to push yourself too.
As you will soon find out, there are times when fighting is exactly what your ex wants from you.
They sometimes even need it.
Listen, I know where you are coming from.
Like I said, I consider myself to not be the fighting type.
So why do ex girlfriends and boyfriends want to fight? Maybe we should ask why don't we want to fight? As negative as it might seem, sometimes fighting is exactly what you need.
When you take a negotiation between two companies, there is going to be some push back from either side until you get an agreement.
Any particular company is going to take whatever they are allowed.
Think about going to an estate sale, and finding an extremely valuable antique valued for way less than it is worth.
Would you tell the seller that they are being ripped off? Or would you buy it yourself and take the profits? Relationships are the same way.
You need to fight for what you want.
Any couple that is close to being evenly matched usually fights to get to that agreement.
It is not something that is just given to you.
Now do you want to know something very shocking? Fighting will often bring your ex back to you.
If you are the person that is always asking why my ex never wants to end the conversation, it is because they are still interested.
And they are looking for you to get passionate about the relationship and say how you feel.
You need to push yourself, but sometimes just saying what comes time mind will get you to where you need to be.
Remember, nothing comes easy in a relationship, because after time it becomes human nature to take what you can get.
Don't be afraid to stand up for what you want.