It is hard at times to keep a relationship going well. At times we do not really know what our partner is expecting from us, doing things at the wrong time or not taking the right thing when our partner want to see something else can be a few of the reasons why many couples break up. Rest assured, after a break up it is not always completely over. There are a few things that your can do to get your ex back and start your relationship over again and make it even better than what it was before the break up.

It will be good for both you and your partner to take a few days alone just after the break up; this will allow you some time to think over what went wrong. You will need to decide why you want to get back with your ex and if will really be worth it. You will also have to make a few adjustments once you have figured out what caused your boyfriend to leave you. It might have not been only one thing that went wrong so, you will have to make a big effort to make things better. I use to give this advice to many friends, many will say that they loved and still love their boyfriend but just saying "I love him" is not enough right now.

From my past experiences with man, that is my ex boyfriends. I can say that most of them like it when they are in a relationship that is fun and full of surprise. When you will get your boyfriend back, it is important that you work hard to make your relationship better than it was before. If you were stuck in routine, and it was hard for you to spend time with your boyfriend, do whatever you can so that you are able to spend at least one special night with your boyfriend.

Also, you need to keep in mind that your boyfriend loved you for a reason. You might have changed from that person that he once loved. So, you will need to evaluate yourself and try to figure out what changed in you as this might be the reason why he left you. However, if you are happy with who you are now, then you need to think if it will really be worth it to get back with your ex boyfriend. If you are not ready to change and be the person that he wants you to be, then it is not really worth trying to get your boyfriend back.

Lastly, you should know that having your boyfriend in your thoughts is one thing; you should also make the effort to let them know that you are thinking about them. Being too busy in your work may have given your boyfriend the impression that you do not care about him. Call them, even if it is just to say hello. Even though you are away from each other right now, you should keep in touch with your boyfriend so he knows you care.