Are you finding it hard to get over your past relationship with your ex? Sometimes, it can be painful reliving the past, but memories of a loved one never die! Stop playing games that make you wonder whether your ex still loves you or not.
Remember, if your man/woman is worth going after, then go ahead and find out if your feelings are reciprocated! Stay in touch.
Don't shy away from the circle of mutual friends that will help you stay in touch with your ex.
Make sure you are always in a place where your ex can get a good look at you and regret the fact that you are not together anymore! Be alert and keep tabs on your ex without making it too obvious.
This should help you to get an idea about your ex's waning or burning interest in you! Work on yourself.
Get ready to be hard on yourself! Drop the bad habits and attitudes that made you unbearable! Once you have worked on your behavior and attitude, you can start on your looks! A desirable, more alluring look will definitely make your ex regret the fact that you are not his/hers anymore! Get a new wardrobe, hairstyle and look that will make heads turn! If you find your ex staring at you and hanging around this new you, yes! he/she still has feelings for you.
Don't push! Avoid being pushy and desperate.
Nothing is more awful than an "ex" trying to worm his/her way into one's life.
Be subtle in your approach, and "cool" with your ex.
Again, you should not go to the extremes of pushing your ex too far away.
Once you have caught your ex's interest it should be easy to read his/her feelings for you.
Broach the subject.
Once you have established a firm contact, you could come out with it and be frank with your ex.
Let him/her know that you are still in love with him/her!
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