Did you just break up with your spouse and now you want them back? The effects of a divorce on everyone cannot be over emphasized.
Therefore, it is not uncommon for you to see divorced couples talking on how to get back their ex.
First and foremost to get back your ex, you need to have a civil relationship with him or her.
This can be achieved by making casual calls once in a while and asking him or her about life in general also you can do this by checking up on them in their work place or their residence.
Seeing you alone might spark of some reactions in his or her mind.
One thing you need to have in mind here is to try as much as possible to be strong.
Never, breakdown in tears in any of your phone conversations or meetings no matter how badly you want the person back.
Reserve the tears for your bedroom.
You don't want to be seen as someone who is desperate.
Secondly, try as much as you can to talk to other people.
This doesn't mean you should start looking for an alternative relationship but rather go ahead and start talking to people out there.
It will help you keep your mind off the whole scenario for a while and also help you in learning new things you don't know about relationships.
This will not only help you get your ex back but also help you when they are back in your arms.
No matter how emotional things become in one of your casual visits to your ex, don't ever fall into the temptation of going into sex.
Your partner might see this as a cheap ploy to get him or her back.
On the other hand this will paint you as a much undisciplined person.
If your partner has been dreaming of the sexual encounters the both of you have shared, he or she may be forced to start considering reconciliation.
Therefore you don't need to force it on them.
When your ex approaches you with reconciliation talks, try as much as you can not to display an 'I don't care' attitude.
This is important if you have always been thinking of how to get back your ex.
Do this and he or she will wrongly believe you don't care about them again.
Give him or her, a listening ear and be willing to accept any faults on your part.
Above all do your best to make sure the both of you find a level playing ground to re-establish the relationship.