Men leave women for one reason: Fear.
Read on, these are simple and very powerful points.
Fear of commitment, fear of being trapped inside of a marriage that they cannot get out of.
The list goes on and on.
I have a friend who called himself, a "commitment" dodger, and every time a women would try to get close to him, he would run away.
Why? Fear of a commitment.
How can a woman or man get too close too fast? A women who demonstrates that she "cannot live without" their mate, creates a strong psychological need that is often hard to break and very hard for the other person to understand.
People have boundaries.
And these boundaries shrink at times depending on how well communication, both verbal and nonverbal are demonstrated in the relationship.
The same goes for guys.
We are in an age, where men seem to be feminized to a certain extent.
Lets face it, Guys have become needy! And whoever becomes the neediest, loses the power first off in the relationship.
Why did I get Dumped and Can I get them back? Whether you are a male or female reading this, one rule applies.
Individualism, do not be a chameleon, meaning do not change when you enter into the relationship.
I bought a Mercedes and I came home with a Yugo! Stay with me here and read this carefully.
If you still want your ex, and you want to know how to get your ex back, you must become the person that they were initially attracted too! Think of it this way.
Lets say you bought a Mercedes because the seats were nice and you like the responded every time drove it.
Relationships are the same way! What if the next time you go in your car, you were in a different car? It would confuse you and eventually you would get out! The same principle happens with relationships.
People change and when they do, the response to that person also changes.
Read that again, their response to you changes too.
This is one of the reasons why people suddenly find themselves in a whole new world after they become needy.
And its not a good one.