The "no contact" rule

The very first thing you need to do if you want to get your boyfriend back is completely ignore him. Yep. You read that right. It is known as the "no contact" rule and you should use it immediately. It will likely take every ounce of willpower you have to not call your ex, but you must not contact them. This is very important!

Stay busy while staying casually in touch with your ex

After a couple days to a week, it is OK to contact your boyfriend again. As the saying goes "Absense makes the heart grow fonder, but too much absense makes it wander". You want to be playful, flirty, lighthearted, it's almost like your starting over again, like when you first met them. Do NOT be serious and bring up the breakup, let them know that you find them attractive. You attracted them once before, so be that person you were in the beginning.

Attract them again.

People generally are attracted to other people who make them feel good about themselves. The truth is, you KNOW how to get your boyfriend back. You know what attracts them and what does not better then anyone else. So take it slowly, do not come across as too needy, just simply reattract them.

Asking your ex out for a date

This is one of the last steps in how to get your boyfriend back. If things have been going well, and you are talking again, you may want to suggest a date. Now again make sure it's something light and casual, (think coffee or a walk in the park), not a dinner date or anything romantic.

Getting back together

So you see, it is possible to get your boyfriend back. If everything has gone well so far, you and your ex should well on your way to happiness!