You want to know how to stop your breakup.
The very fact that you want to know how to overcome a breakup is a good beginning.
To get over the breakup, you have to want it and you have to be able to embrace change.
It's no doubt that we all make mistakes at some points of our lives, and we all occasionally lose something that we desire to have forever.
Relationships are no big difference in this respect.
Until you actually decide to face the reality, you won't begin to let go, you won't be able to ease your pain.
Accepting that your relationship is over (either temporary or permanently) is the first significant step in putting the past behind you.
So do it as fast as you can.
First of all, calm down and stop hasty actions.
It will lead to one only outcome: failure.
It is vitally important for you now to stop your sheer depression and destroy the overwhelming desperation that causes you to suffer so immensely.
It just needs to be done.
Now.
After you did that, sit down and thoroughly think through the situation.
What lead to this separation? What do you need to change to get them back? What they liked and disliked about you the most? Do you really want to get them back or it's just jealousy and possessiveness? Maybe you just need to have some spare time and think it through again before you make a move? Sometimes when we are deciding on how to get over the breakup, we tend to ponder too long and simply lose the opportunity that is waiting for us.
If you want ex back, you have to figure out what went wrong, provide a solution, and do that as fast as you possibly can.
Sitting around thinking about it just basically means to procrastinate - and nothing more! You have to face this trouble head on and figure out a way out.
So bear in mind, as you sit and think, another partner may be moving in on your ex.
So get going now! If you're serious about stopping the break up, be prepared to spend some time at it.
It's not going to happen overnight.
Make a game plan and stick to it, and eventually the answer to how to win back your ex will fall into your lap.
I wish you the best on your way!