Are you longing to return your relationship to the good old days? Do you remember how happy you were just to be in each other's arms, didn't matter where you were as long as you were together.
Well, not so long ago, I decided to stop my break up and get my ex back and so can you.
The good news is that couples reunite every day; it's just a matter of how you go about it.
If you're willing to recognize where you may have gone wrong and what can be done to move forward you have every chance of rekindling your lost romance...
These are the first 3 steps I took to get my ex back in my life...
1: Play It Cool.
Perhaps the most common mistake made when trying to get an ex back, is trying too hard.
Of course, it's easily done, you're in an emotional place, it seems perfectly rational to pour your heart out, and perhaps even plead, but this is a big mistake.
If you're at this stage in a break up, it's far better to do the complete opposite.
Be a little reserved and difficult to get hold of, this will give you time to adjust, gather your thoughts and become calmer.
The last thing you want to do, is what I did when trying to get my ex back and that's act desperate and needy.
The only thing this accomplished was pushing her even further away...
be warned...
for the initial stages just play a little cool until you get to where you have a realistic plan.
2: Take it slow...
So please, at all costs, no desperate or needy behavior.
What next? Well...
how about a little reverse psychology.
Just as needy, desperate behavior repels, calm, strong behavior attracts.
It's a strange fact of human nature that people generally are more attracted to things that are difficult to obtain.
Rare is beautiful, as they say...
so take your time in reestablishing normal contact, if you happen to see your ex while you're out and about, fine, just keep the conversation brief, you've got a life and things to do right! Let them be aware that you're fine, keep the conversation pleasant but brief, after all mystery is actually quite appealing.
Oh...
and don't be afraid to flirt a little as well...
But just a little! 3: Look good! You will want to make sure that you're looking and smelling great, good looking people are of course more attractive, and part of you plan will be to remind your ex of exactly what attracted them to you in the first place.
You don't need to go overboard and make it glaringly obvious that you are trying to impress, but you do want to arouse a little interest, just be subtle.
Also be aware that a large part of communication is non verbal, so pay close attention to how you carry yourself, try your best to project a happy and confident persona.
You are going to want to make sure that your ex feels good any time they are around you, looking, acting and feeling great is best place to start.
Gradually as you define a new relationship, maybe firstly just as friends, remind your ex of some of the good times you had together, cause them to link back to those good time visually.
Reminiscing, being open, and fun are all great ways to rekindle those lost feelings.
These are the first steps I took to get my ex back.
I hope they will be a beginning for you also.
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