So you want to know how to get your ex boyfriend back? The problem is, you are probably emotionally unstable right now - and I say that because I understand what you are going through right now.
In fact, I myself went through the exact same thing you are now! I was dumped 3 days before my wedding, and it hurt...
a lot! So I understand how you feel.
Going through a breakup is tough.
But I have a secret for you - a secret that your ex doesn't want you to know, because - get this - if you know it, you can get your ex boyfriend back! What is this secret? The secret is this: Commitment and Consistency Commitment and Consistency is the strong desire to stay "stable" in our decision making...
it means that once we make a decision, we like to stick with it.
Up until now, this has been working against you...
But no more! You can use commitment and consistency to your advantage like so - slowly start to communicate with them.
In fact, every little communication they respond back to is a "yes" to getting back together.
And what is the easiest way for you to start off? A get your ex back hand written letter! That is step 1...
The next step is getting them to answer an email...
after an email, an instant chat.
Next, a phone call.
And finally, a catch up date! (of course, don't call it a "date") See how slow it moves? You go through each phase and slowly win your ex back.