REBOUND RELATIONSHIP We often hear that a person that gets divorced will at some point of time have a rebound relationship.
It is possibly easier to call it quits with someone, than to accept that you have been dumped, but having been dumped, then you need to take your time and sit back, smell the roses if you like, and have a period of contemplation before dating again and may be avoid the possibility of being labeled a rebound, by your so called peers in your next relationship.
The question often asked is, "how long does a rebound relationship have to last for it to count as a rebound" can they have more than one, who cares.
The most important issue here is, what does it really matter to you.
HOW MANY? There is no real answer, as a person can have many rebound relationships for the rest of their lives, and every persons mental attitude or point of view, as to what constitutes a rebound is different.
It is a very emotive issue as one persons rebound is viewed by another as purely a fling.
Any way, how many bikes are enough? GET OVER IT You can spend a whole lot of time procrastinating as to went wrong in a relationship - whether it was their fault or their partners that ended the relationship - and do things to change those things.
A person might get into a relationship that lasts for years, but if there is still a reminder of a prior relationship, the present one may suffer, or not work, and then a real concentrated effort to get over it is needed.
Experience can tell you not to go back to where you've been, as that path has been trodden, and the present days situation could be the most comfortable you've been in, none the less an estranged person needs to ask the question of themselves to find the answer.
Depending upon the answer, it may well never have been a rebound relationship at all but rather one that works and that might just be, good management.
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