You are in a relationship but you are not certain whether it is best for you to stay or let go.
Sometimes the red flags in a relationship are right in your face waving at you but you choose to have a blind eye.
It's a fact of life that we fear the unknown that's why it's always hard to break up with someone.
You have to realize when it's time for you to move on as early as possible because if you don't, you are doing more harm than good to yourself.
Abuse For those of us who are not in an abusive relationship, this is definitely a no-brainer but for people who have already invested so much in the relationship when abuse begins, denial is inevitable.
Your logic is not working and you even have the tendency to justify why your partner is abusing you physically or emotionally.
Abuse is definitely one of the most obvious red flags in any relationship.
Nobody deserves to be abused! Don't wait for things to get better because they never will! If there is any form of abuse, you have to let go immediately, this person is just not right for you.
Learn how to stand up for yourself and get out.
Once you are able to free yourself, never look back and keep moving forward.
No Chemistry Zero chemistry is also one of the most common red flags in a relationship.
Now you know why Hollywood divorces always reason out "Irreconcilable Differences"! When a relationship lacks chemistry, there's no way it can survive.
You need to have things in common outside of physical attraction.
If you two can't relate on some sort of level, the attraction will wear off real quick! There should be things that you both strongly believe in and things you enjoy doing together.
For example, you love partying and drinking but your partner is an introvert and likes staying at home, you will break up faster than you pour tea in your cup.
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Falling Out of Love You're not excited to see your lover anymore, in fact you dread it! Now when you think about your life a couple of years from now, you just don't see him being there.
You start arguments on purpose and you make up issues hoping that he will get pissed off and break up with you.
Falling out of love is one of the red flags in a relationship that you should never take for granted.
Remember that love is the primary ingredient in any lasting relationship.