Is your marriage headed straight to divorce court? Are you looking for a way to prevent it from happening? If this is the case for you, I want to tell you that I sympathize; once upon a time, I was in your shoes.
 I realize how painful it is to see your marriage go up in smoke, especially after you have invested so much time and effort into trying to make it a success.
 Take solace in this: I found a way to fix my marriage, and you can too, as long as you go about it in the right direction.
First of all, you have to put yourself in the right frame of mind in order to put your marriage back on track.
 This fact is crucial to achieving your marriage goals.
 When you are faced with impending marital disaster, you become desperate and rushed in your attempts to try to thwart divorce.
 How do I know? I know because I have felt that way too.
 But, let me impart some of my wisdom on you.
 If you feel this way, you will only add to your marital problems.
 I had to learn this the by myself, so I want to keep you from learning the hard way also.
 You just cannot rush the process of saving your marriage.
  Why can't I rush? Think about this: marriage is considered to be a long term commitment, correct? I am sure that as time has gone by, events have occurred that have made your spouse rethink being married to you.
 I am sure this did not happen all at once; it is more like a snowball effect.
 So, since the state of your marriage did not get to be the way it is in one day, you cannot expect to put the pieces back together in one day either.
 Searching for a quick fix to your marriage is not a productive way to spend your time.
 Put that "frantic, knee-jerk" mental state to rest, and instead, adopt a "saving your marriage" mentality.
 You just need to relax a little bit and allow yourself to look at your marriage with fresh eyes if you stop trying to find a quick fix.
 This is the only way to get to the bottom of your marital problems.
 Do not just react to your bad marriage; formulate a well thought out plan to fix it.
  I do understand this is easier to say than to put into practice; however, I have made my own website containing information that will guide you in the right direction and help you save your marriage.