When a breakup occurs, it is natural to feel your relationship is over for good. But, it does not have to be that way. The reason you are feeling so desperate, is because he has pushed your emotional hot buttons. You are feeling unwanted and rejected. Your ex boyfriend has emotional hot buttons too and if you push them in the right way, he will be begging for your love.

Of course women and men react differently when it comes to love and breakups. As a woman, you would like nothing better than to sit down with your ex and talk things out. He wants to be left alone and that is where the a clash of wills often results. This difference in your thinking is something you need to keep in mind. If you want to get him back, you will need to think the way your ex boyfriend does.

That is where pushing his emotional hot buttons comes in. Knowing the right ones to push at the right time will make him unable to resist you. So, let's get started getting your ex back. In order to want you back, he will have to miss you. The best way to make him miss you is to give him a chance to experience his life without you. The best way to accomplish that is to ignore him and have no contact with him.

When he broke up with you, he was counting on your love, to make you chase him and beg him to love you again. When you do not chase him, he will think you do not love him anymore. That will push one of his hot buttons and he will start to feel as if he had been wrong to take you for granted. Your ex boyfriend will start to have second thoughts about the breakup. He did not expect to lose you, your ex just wanted to make you grovel.

The next thing you do is show him you are not sitting at home moping around and waiting for him to call. Be sure to look your best in case you run into him and go out with friends for a good time. It will also make him remember the good times he had with you and want them back. This will push his biggest hot button. It will make him feel rejected and as if he is losing you. Your ex boyfriend will feel as if he is the one that was dumped. This will make him feel the same panic you felt when he dumped you and he will not be able to rest until you are back in his arms.