Have you just broken up with your girlfriend and are trying to find ways to get her back? Well, if you are trying to get your girlfriend back, it is important not to fall into the 2 common traps.
Here are the 2 common traps.
1) Doing Things That You Feel You Should Be Doing This is perhaps one of the biggest trap! You think you should be doing the things that you feel you should be doing.
Big No! I hope you are not confused by what I am saying above.
The fact is, if you feel like doing something, then it is probably a good idea not to do it.
For example, if you feeling like calling her over and over again, then you must definitely not do it.
Because you will only push her further away.
You do not want to show your girlfriend that you are desperate.
In fact, what you should really be doing is suppose to be opposite to what you are feeling.
You will be much better off not to call her over and over again even though you really "Feel" like doing it.
Sometimes, it is much better to do the opposite of what you feel.
2) You Think the Tactics for Winning a Boyfriend Back Is the Same as the Tactics for Winning a Girlfriend Back You may see a lot of advice telling you to do things in a certain way.
Some advices are suitable for both genders.
So that is fine.
But if you use advice that are meant to help women win their boyfriend back, you may not see your desired outcome.
What works for men may not necessary work for women.