We always have thoughts running in our heads.
However, thoughts can be controlled by us or let it run freely.
If you take our minds as a garden and each thoughts as a plant.
We can grow anything we want in your garden.
If each negative thought is a weed and each positive thought a rose.
Which would you prefer having in your mind's garden? I would prefer my garden to be full of flowers and lesser weeds to suck my energy out.
As written in the first paragraph of As A Man Thinketh in Chapter 2, "A man's mind may be likened to a garden, which may be intelligently cultivated or allowed to run wild; but whether cultivated or neglected, it must and will bring forth.
If no useful seeds are put into it, then an abundance of useless weed-seeds will fall therein, and will continue to produce their kind.
" When you realize that you are capable of controlling what you want to grow in your garden, you will experience empowerment and control in your life.
You are the master gardener who will evaluate each plant as weed or flower.
If it serves no purpose in your life, weed it out.
Although we have in each of us unlimited abundance, we can have lots of weeds and flowers but what if you only have a limited plot of land for your flowers and fruits? Time maybe an indication of how big your garden will be.
We are all given a limited time on this face of earth.
We must take control of our life with our mind because the thoughts will be translated into physical things in your life.
Each thoughts put into the garden are seeds of weeds or flowers.
Like the statement, seeds of weeds into abundances will only produce abundances of weeds and more will grow out of the ground for you.
The earlier you realize that weeds are growing, you can pluck them out one at the time and replace it with seeds of flowers and fruits.
In my own garden, I love to grow green beans.
The reason for doing so, it always reminds me of the actions and thoughts I take each day.
Each green bean seed I plant on the pot of soil, It will without fail produce many green bean seeds for me.
If the soil is abundance just like what we are surrounded with, the seeds we plant each day will in future produce the things you want for it is law.
Green bean seeds will produce a green bean plant to bear fruits of green bean seeds for you.
It will never give you an orange from a green bean plant.
That is law of the universe for you.
If you want to be in a healthy relationship or marriage, start having healthy thoughts and start growing your flowers in your garden.
Every day, plant a seed of healthy marriage and with time it will grow a huge tree or plant to bear you fruits of a healthy marriage in your mind's garden.