If you are suffering the broken heart, the last thing you need to do is waste time and energy wishing for your ex to come back.
  There will be plenty of time for that later.
For now, you need to focus on taking care of yourself.
To do this you need to take control of your life.
  You may not have had any control of the end of your relationship but you certainly have control of what you do now.
  Follow these tips to help build and stronger and happier you.
Keep Your Mind Busy A mind that is not being distracted will have much too much time to think about how unhappy you are.
  Keep yourself active and out of the house so you won't have time to dwell on your recent breakup.
  Take the time to start a new hobby or renew your library card...
whatever interests you enough to keep you distracted.
  It is best if you find things that will get you interacting with other people.
Stay Positive Makes sure the things you do will leave you with positive feelings.
  Volunteering is a great way to spend your time and meet new people.
  The best part about volunteering is that it can leave you feeling really good about yourself.
You might also consider taking a few classes at a local college.
  It won't cost you very much money and you can choose to learn about almost anything that interests you.
  Perhaps you can learn a new language and then plan a trip to the country where it is spoken.
Enjoy Being Single It may have been quite some time since you had the freedom to do whatever you want.
  Enjoy the little advantages about being by yourself.
  For instance, when you go to the grocery store, you only have to buy the types of foods that you enjoy or pick up the TV remote and choose whichever show or movie strikes your fancy.
  Get Together With Friends Now is the perfect time to reintroduce yourself to your friends.
  Plan a few nights out on the town with your friends.
  This is not only a great way to get yourself out of the house but you may discover that you have really missed the companionship of close friends.