When a man says he is leaving you and tells you that the reason has nothing to do with you, often he is actually telling the truth.
Surprisingly men leave for reasons that they have been battling with for a long time.
They do not usually leave a relationship because of something that their partner did.
Men usually leave because of an issue that needs to be addressed within them.
What are these reasons that drive men to leave a relationship? The reasons usually go back to a past relationship or stem from their upbringing.
Men idealize their mothers.
A woman in their life can never live up to a mans projection of mom.
Men put their moms on pedestals and it is impossible for a woman to be the super woman that is her partners mother.
Idealizing mom is common and it is an issue that most women will have to deal with when involved in a proper loving relationship.
One reason that women believe make a man leave is that they have a fear of committing to a partner.
Men can commit.
They usually do not if their relationship is based on guilt or need.
Men do not commit when a relationship is established from pressure.
They will not commit if they feel that the relationship is not the right for him.
Fear of satisfying their partner drives many men away.
Men seek approval and many women do not give it.
Women are often very critical of their men and their men are just seeking acknowledgement.
No matter what they do in this relationship they build up resentment for lack of praise and their self esteem bottoms out.
It hurts them to leave but they must in order to find the gratitude they need.
Everyone seeks approval and compliments.
Men are no different.
Besides living with an untruthful picture of an idealized mom, many men cannot get over a past love in their life.
They dream of reconnecting with a lover from the past and block their efforts of moving forward in their current relationship by doing this.
Until a man can let go of his past he can not move forward.
The memories of a past relationship are like a dream to many men.
They remember the good and throw out the bad.
If you are experiencing tension in your relationship, try the following advice; award winning author and relationship expert, Dr.
Brenda Shoshanna says "give him space to discover himself, without guilt.
His changes do not mean he does not love you.
Allow him to be all that he is.
Acceptance is love.
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