In this article I will show you how to get your ex back permanently by re-inventing the romance that could be missing in your marriage.
The reason I can show you how is because it is working for me.
I lost my wife not because I did anything wrong or bad to her but because of my lack of romance.
My wife and I enjoyed 30 years of marriage together and we raised 3 kids when she pulled the biggest plug on my life.
She wanted out of our marriage.
Our youngest daughter had just left home for her freshman year of college making us empty nesters for the first time.
I had plans of enjoying the house without sharing the bathroom or listening to teenager chatter that I had grown use to.
I also wanted to spend more time fishing and playing golf.
I wasn't sure what my wife had planned but she was free also so I was sure she had her plans too.
What I didn't know was that she had been planning for over a year to leave me as soon as our daughter left.
This caught me totally off guard.
I listened to her explain to me why.
She said she was tired.
"Tired of what "I asked, and she replied," that she was tired of being married.
" Not tired of me nor was she angry our disappointed with me or our relationship but tired of being a wife, mother, cook (I don't cook at all) maid, and over a hundred other things that our children and I took for granted.
She also said she didn't want to end up like her mother or mine, settled into a lifelong routine that they only seem to endure rather than enjoy as they grew older.
She was still fairly young and wasn't ready to grow into an old empty nest maid, or wife.
I asked her was there someone else and she shook her head as if I didn't get it.
"It's not about you or anyone else its all about me.
" She replied.
But I was still confused because to me there was nothing wrong with our marriage that I could see.
I thought she was crazy, maybe going through one of those mid life crisis that all women go through.
So she moved out and got her own apartment.
I thought I had lost her for good and I wanted badly to get my ex back permanently.
I wanted her to come back home.
But while living apart I discovered that she had a right to be tired.
Now that she was gone I have to go to work, fix my own dinner, wash and fold my own clothes, in addition to doing household chores.
She had been doing all these things since we had been married.
I can't imagine the pressure she was under to perform these duties while the kids were home.
Yes I was in the home and I chipped in on housework when I wasn't playing golf or tinkering in the garage or doing some other thing that I felt was more important.
Finally one day I called her up to see if she wanted to go to see a movie and she agreed.
After the movie I surprised her by taking her to the same restaurant that we went to on our first date.
She had quite a laugh remembering how embarrassed I was when the bill came to pay and I was 5 dollars short.
Luckily she had some cash on her and paid the bill while I kept digging into my empty pockets.
Then I remembered that the next day after our first date that she called me up and invited me to her place for dinner.
I was so lucky to have her because she liked me for who I was and not for what I had even way back then.
That's why I loved and married her because she was good to me.
That night at our old restaurant we spent hours laughing and talking about the courtship and our life together.
She had a strange look on her face when she asked me "why couldn't you have been like this while I was home?" What she was asking was why did I take her for granted for so long? I could only shake my head because I had no answer.
We left the restaurant both feeling better and happier than we had in years.
We agreed to do it again the following week.
I also have made a surprise list of other places and things we had done that I know she has long forgotten.
She still loves me and I know that has never been the question, it was just that I had forgotten how life can become so burdensome for her, a woman, wife and mother.
I could kick myself for not planning a romantic getaway once in a while or surprising her with a romantic gift from time to time in our 30 years of marriage.
Thanks to this split I have come of age and learned that to get my wife back I must re-invent romance because she is my wife and my best friend and I love her and want her to come home and never, ever leave me again.
I am going to romance her right back into my home because how to get your ex back permanently and I'm sure that you do too.