The pain and sadness of a break up can feel overwhelming.
Going from sharing every aspect of your life to suddenly being thrown into a world of unknowns is very scary.
It's hard to let go of a comfortable and familiar life, even if it wasn't perfect.
Do you find yourself wishing you could get your ex boyfriend back? If you want to heal your relationship problems then don't make the same mistakes almost everyone makes.
Here is some practical advice on what you should be doing in order to increase the odds of getting back together.
Avoid these mistakes! Remember that your boyfriend knows you better than anyone and can sense if you're trying to get him back.
If you're acting the slightest bit desperate he can't help but pull away from you.
You would probably do the same if the situation were reversed.
It's human nature.
Don't fall into the trap of throwing yourself at your ex.
It doesn't work.
Have you been arguing about the relationship, trying to talk him into taking you back or promising you'll change? A better approach...
You're going to need a fresh approach.
Break off contact for a while and do your own thing.
Now is a perfect time to start working on improving yourself.
Stay busy doing positive activities instead of always thinking about ways to save your relationship.
This will be a challenging time for you and you'll have to resist the urge to return to your old ways.
Your ex will see that you're not longer throwing yourself at him.
You're actually become somewhat mysterious and unavailable and this can work in your favor.
Now he is in a position to miss you.
How can he miss you if you're always chasing him? There is hope! Getting your ex boyfriend back is not hopeless..
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couples get back together and heal their relationship problems every day.
So can you.
But it's not going to be easy to keep from contacting him and giving in to the feelings of anxiety that are sure to come up.
Make sure you have a solid plan and stick with it.
Don't be afraid to seek out advice that can help guide you through this challenging time of your life.