How to get him back can be a lot easier compared to making him stay for good.
Getting an ex back is not easy; as a matter of fact, it can be difficult to do at times.
But it's workable.
With the right attitude and methods, you can have your ex back in your loving arms in no time.
Keeping him and making sure he doesn't leave again is another thing.
Why is this so? Because a second chance at the relationship is like a ticking time bomb.
You know there is a possibility that it explodes but with the right combination and skills, you can keep it from happening.
At first, things can be tough in the relationship.
Yes, you've been together before so you should get used to each other by now, but this is not like the first time.
This is a second chance, and maybe, your last chance to be together.
It's like a basketball do-or-die game.
Screw up and you lose the championship-forever.
If you commit the same mistakes this time around, don't be surprised if you man walks out on you again and never come back.
Though it's not impossible, it will be a hundred times more difficult to make your ex want you back simply because he's already given you the chance and yet you failed.
Remember, if you do manage to get him back, make sure to do the right thing and not commit the same mistakes again.
Here are the things you should NEVER do to keep your ex from leaving you again: • Being jealous of the girls he surrounds himself with - don't be jealous of his lady friends or officemates.
Jealousy can be the trigger for your separation.
Try to keep an open mind.
If there's nothing suspicious, then don't make a big fuss.
• Being suspicious about where he's been or who he's with - this clearly indicates the lack of trust in your partner.
Guys never like it when their girlfriends constantly ask every single place they've been during the day, as well as the people they were with.
• Nagging him about anything - guys don't like naggers.
If they want someone to nag them all day, they'd go live with their moms.
• Checking their phones, emails when without their knowledge - his things are private even if you're a couple.
Most people do this to their partners.
In fear of infidelity, they snoop around.
Never do this unless you want him to walk out on you.
• Forbidding him to be with his friends - don't tell him where he can and he can't go nor forbid him to see his pals.
This is calling for trouble.
You've invested time and effort on how to get him back so don't let them go to waste by doing something as silly as this.
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