Have you discovered that your ex boyfriend still likes you, and you don't know what to do? Are you torn between getting back together, or telling him to shove off? Have you become an emotional wreck because of the mixed feelings you are going through now that you've found out your ex boyfriend still likes you? It is quite common for people to realize what a major mistake they have made when they've broken off a relationship.
Here are some ways you can decide what to do if you've discovered he wants to get back together.
Find Out Why Before you do anything else, find out why your ex wants to get back together with you.
Is it because he really does love you, and has discovered that life without you is worse than he ever imagined it would be? Or has he found that no other girl wants to have anything to do with him because everyone can see what a jerk he really is? As you can see, these are two very different scenarios! Finding out why your ex boyfriend still likes you can help you make a decision about what to do next.
How To Get Rid Of Him If You Don't Want To Be Together If you want to get rid of that ex, then you can do a few things.
You can ignore him completely, which may just make him want you even more, or you can tell him to go pound sand, which might make him admire you even more than he already does.
If he keeps on pestering you, then there's just one thing to do: Get involved with someone else, even if it is just a superficial, rebound type relationship.
Don't just say you want your ex to leave you alone, show him by moving on with your life.
He's going to have to understand sometime.
If you ex persists in insisting that the two of you are meant to be together and crosses over to stalking you, then get help from law enforcement authorities.
There is no reason you should have to be exposed to an ex who is just not good for you, and who is becoming scarier by the minute.
How To Get Back Together If You Think It Will Work If your ex boyfriend still likes you and you like him as well, then there is really no reason why the two of you should not give love a second chance.
Before you start, lay out some ground rules.
Talk about the things that caused you to break up in the past, and make a plan for avoiding those circumstances in the future.
Often, we make the mistake of breaking up with someone who we would be better off staying together with - and quite often, life does give us a second chance at loving that person.
Once you've identified the problems you've had and made a plan for improving your lives, then take it slowly.
If you've only been broken up for a few weeks, it might be easy to get back into the swing of things.
If, like some people, you have been separated for many years, then the two of you have become different people than you were when you first broke up.
In this case, the ex boyfriend still likes you for the you who you were back when you broke apart - and you may be attracted to the newest version of him! You may very well discover that now that the two of you are more mature, you're happier than ever.