Every man is not waiting in the shadows for that girl to come along whom he can chase or crave.
Some are difficult to mould to your ways and this is the challenge that you might face some time in your life.
But may be you could bank on some tips.
Breaking through to him With some men especially those who appear to be the difficult type but who has caught your fancy, you will need to break the ice.
Approach him into noticing you.
Tingle his interest in you, as he has not probably been the type to chase women before.
Drawing him in to conversation He may be the reserved type of man who seldom talks and even so lesser with women.
But it will be for you to approach him and start up conversation with him in an intelligent manner which will attract him into making conversation with you.
Pay maximum attention and interest Pay maximum attention and interest to what he says.
Ask him questions about his current occupation, which university he went to.
Show genuine interest, while appreciating him; not making the questions sound of obvious interest.
Match up to his caliber He needs to know that he's met his match in caliber.
So go ahead and tell him which university you went to and what you are doing right now and what your future professional plans are.
All this will impress him tremendously knowing that he has met his match.
Lead him on into knowing you better Throw the ball into his court now to want to know you better.
Let him ask and probe to know you further.
But remember not to reveal more than he asks you so that in future you can come up with many more things that will take him by surprise.
Keep your distance Now, having aroused his curiosity and interested in you, it is time to employ a little of the 'hide and seek' game of illusion.
You must not give in to his desire to take you out or date you just yet.
You are a busy person with so many activities to pursue that you cannot meet him for the next couple of days.
Let him realize that you are for him Soon he will realize that you were made for him and how lucky he is to have found his soul mate in you.
There must be more to this relationship knowing that he has been a difficult man to have got through to as has been past experiences.