If you have your eyes set on a particular guy, but it seems like you just cannot seem to get him to notice you, that can be a frustrating experience. For most women, they will just let it pass and try to figure out what happened, why it happened, and what they could have done differently. However, if you REALLY want to become the kind of woman that attracts guys easily and end up with the guy you want, you have to know how to get him to notice you. And it's probably not as hard as you might think it is.
Here are some tips on how to get a guys attention and make him notice you:
1. Guys are first and foremost attracted to women that look their best.
That does not mean that you have to be a size two, have fake breasts, or dye your hair a certain color. What you do need to pay attention to is whether or not you need an updated and refreshed look. Just some small and subtle changes to your appearance can be more than enough to get him to notice you. What a lot of women don't realize is that guys will totally judge you on whether or not you are the type of woman they want for a relationship or just a fling based on how you look.
2. Guys like to feel as though they are in charge of the situation.
It's true, they do. An easy way to do this is to be an easy to talk to woman. That way, he can feel as though he can express himself the way that he wants without feeling any pressure coming from you. When a guy feels too much pressure or as if they are not in control of the situation, they start to feel insecure and when that happens, he will probably end up shying away from you.
3. Guys like to be around women that can cut loose and have a good time.
This is something that actually flows both ways. You know that you don't like to be around an uptight fellow, one that does not know how to just drop everything and have a good time, and men are the same way. When a guy finds a woman that he feels like he can have a good time with and just enjoy the evening, he will pay attention to you, and he will keep coming back to you.
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