If there is one piece of advice to give to overcome marriage problems, it is "keep talking calmly and discussing rather than falling into the trap of bickering".
Bickering and snapping at one another is just too easy and is something too many of us do instead of facing the problem.
As strange as it seems, marriage is fraught with dangers right from the start.
Consider

• We are different sexes
• We are probably different ages
• We often come from different cities, towns areas and even countries
• We have different interests
• Etc

Therefore it is highly unlikely that we are totally used to or relaxed about our partner's habits, routines, interests and so forth We are all guilty of lack of communication at times, and the problem is that unless the issues causing the irritating issues are addressed, communication breakdown can result.
When two people live together it involves adjustment in routines, habits, and attitudes.
Some consideration of feelings must be taken into account in order for the relationship to move forward.
And this means good communication The key to good communication is

1. first of all, identify the problem
2. confront it
3. discuss it with your partner

Even if the problem is as simple as a misplaced bottle of soda, the lid off the juice, or newspapers not picked up.
Don't forget that to the aggrieved party, the problem is serious to a degree and probable represents something more serious and that this is merely the breaking point The key to a good relationship is to avoid reaching this stage and the way you do this is * Communication, * communication, * communication.
Don't let your or your partner's feelings of resentment get out of hand.
You both need to discuss these feelings calmly and often.
Then you both must resolve to address those problems.
Without doing so will inevitably lead to marriage problems.