Is there a correct way and a wrong way to love a man? How can you give him the key to your heart so that he cherishes you? Women fear giving men the key to their hearts because they tend to hurt them.
What is the best way to give him the key to your heart? 1.
Test his character.
Your heart is precious and you just CANNOT give it to anybody...
regardless of how he makes you feel.
Women often ignore the character of a man because of how he makes them feel but you must not make that same mistake.
Before you give him the key to your heart find out if he is worthy of your love...
it's not arrogance but wisdom to prevent yourself being shredded and hurt.
2.
Build your trust in him.
The best way to give him the key to your heart is to trust him slowly and naturally.
Emotions often short-circuit our reasoning capacity so that we trust people who are unproven.
If he has never done anything trustworthy...
why do you entrust your heart to him? If you cannot trust him to run an errand that he promised to run...
why would you foolishly give him the key to your heart? If he lies about non-issues then why do you think that he will treat your heart with better consideration? 3.
Observe him.
Before you give him the key to your heart spend time studying him.
How does he treat service providers or those whom he considers 'lower' than himself in the social pecking order? He may currently treat you like a princess but if he dis-respects those he considers powerless in society...
then one day he will treat your heart with the same contempt that he has for the 'nobodies' in life.
4.
Love him slowly.
Give him the key to your heart slowly...
it's a process not an occasion! As he opens up to you and you get to know him...
then give him your heart as you see more of his great character.
If his character begins to look lousy the more you know him then let common sense kick in and start guarding your heart from him.
It is completely illogical to give the keys to your heart to an abusive, self- centered man...
isn't it? And yet many women do it every single day...
bringing untold grief and suffering to themselves and to their children! The best way to give him the keys to your heart is by using your head as much as you possibly can...
instead of relying only on your heart.