Are you in doubt about whether or not the guy you are seeing truly loves you? What if you could cut through the confusion and know for sure what you mean to him? Are you ready to either cut your losses or move ahead with this guy but are dying to know if he really loves you first? If you are ready to uncover the truth then here are the three things which will alleviate all doubt: First, look at the way that you spend your time together.
How often do you do things which you really enjoy doing.
Things which you want to do? If it is all about him then you go out then chances are that the relationship is all about him and that he really only loves the way that he feels about you and not you for who you are.
Second, is it all about the mind blowing sex you are having with him? Try taking a break for a while and looking at the withdrawal.
See if he still enjoys being with you or if he becomes pouty and frustrated with you.
If this relationship is all about sex then he may be into your body, but as far as telling that he really loves you this is a dead giveaway.
Finally, is he a fair weather boyfriend? When things get tough in your life does he bail out or does he move closer to you? When it comes to this, a man can say that he loves you all day but what love really does to any man is makes him fearless in the face of opposition.
If he is not standing by you when things are getting tough then he does not love you the way you deserve to be loved.
While it may be hard to face, if any of these indicate that he really may only be into the relationship and not into you then you have to put a higher price on yourself.
Being with a guy who does not love you is not going to do anything for your self-respect and it is going to keep you from being with a guy who really will.
So once you have taken these into consideration, you know what you need to do in this relationship.
If you cannot tell that he really loves you, better to find someone who will.
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