It's a hard thing when you can say "my spouse doesn't love me anymore".
Maintaining a marriage is never easy, but when the love your spouse feels for you is obviously diminishing day by day, this is when real trouble comes in.
Maybe you feel like you should just let everything go and accept a divorce - but you shouldn't, as there are things you can do in order to save your marriage and make your spouse love you again.
I personally accomplished this and will try to do my best to pass upon my experiences.
Yes, I was also saying "my spouse doesn't love me anymore".
The passion, dynamicism and love of the honeymoon phase was long gone, but I thought that was supposed to be like that; and I thought a purer form of love would remain.
Well, it didn't.
My husband's interest in me was going down every day and it had become practically nonexistent.
I could smell the divorce approaching.
When your marriage is going down the drain because your spouse doesn't love you anymore; the first thing you have to look at is yourself.
It's easy to blame your spouse for his or her lack of interest in you.
But, for someone to be interested in you, you need to be interesting to them in some way, right? Before your married, maybe you were this dynamic, fun loving, active person.
And maybe after the marriage, when hardships of life struck and children arrived; you turned into a passive, humorless, less interesting, bitter person.
Trust me, if you say "my spouse doesn't love me anymore", even if what I said above might not be the biggest contributor in it, it is DEFINITELY a big element in your marriage.
So, how can you fix this? You can pick up new hobbies, new classes in something you like.
You can change your outlook on life, shed the dullness that surrounds you because of the routines of everyday life and become a fun-loving and interesting person again.
You can't imagine how much this changes in a marriage.