There have always been many lessons to learn from human history which helps us even in our day to day life profoundly.
I hope you will agree with me that there is no equivalent to human spirit or liveliness to come out of pitiable situations and build new meaning to life.
See, for example, after the second World War every one thought that it was the end of world because of the atrocities committed during the war with no humanity.
But we have risen out of that trauma and have built our new modern world which is more adorable although it has its own set of problems.
What do we understand from all these? In a traumatic situation like divorce, you might find yourself completely devastated but there is hope for a better future and accept that there will new issues in life that you might have to deal with as time goes by.
The ability to accept is one of the best gifts given to you by gods and use it in intense emotional pain which you can not handle.
Once you accept, you will find that your mind is out of confusion and you will know your next course of action.
If you are in lot of grief with anger because of betrayal and cheating from the other party then forgive them to help yourself.
They do not deserve to be with you if they had betrayed you and the divorce that happened is the right thing for you.
If you believe that there was one time mistake from your spouse, then the decision to divorce or not lies with you alone.
If you make decision on your own, you will not feel victimized by decision from someone else incase the situation turns out in an unexpected manner.
When you can not deal or cope with the situation yourself, meet your doctor and find appropriate solution to your grief.