What is a lap dance? It's considered a form of exotic dance.
Some historians believe exotic dance goes back as far as Cro-Magnon times.
Ancient Babylon, India, the orient and the Middle East all practiced goddess worship as part of their culture.
In Western society Goddess worship was prevalent.
Dance was significant in worship and an example is dancing around the maypole.
It has been said that the Maypole may have been the origin of pole dancing.
Belly dancing is also considered a form of exotic dancing.
Many of these had been used as a form of entertainment and a way to please the gods.
In the 1900's the art of strip tease was integrated by dancers in burlesque shows.
Pole dancing appeared in the 1960's and in the 1980's, the first 'modern' pole dancing clubs was born in Canada.
It was during the 1990's that exotic dance, pole dancing and lap dancing grew worldwide appearing in London and other major cities.
Lap dancing has become widely accepted with clubs entering mainstream entertainment.
Although it appears to have been an underground form of dance for many years, this has now changed with people across all sectors enjoying an evening in a lap dancing club.
What is a Lap dance? It's a playful and sensual erotic dance in which one partner rubs against the other partner in a sexually suggestive way.
It can be carried out in a light, fun teasing kind of manner that will usually involve basic touching and teasing.
Or, it can also be carried out as a more serious and seductive act that will involve intense physical bumping and grinding.
The lucky individual receiving the lap dance is seated on a chair, knees spread opened and in most cases will have his hands tied.
The dancer will sexually sway, slinking between his legs and rubbing against his body while slowly stripping.
Contrary to what you may think, women love to receive this dance as well as men.
So, if you want to surprise your girl friend and get her desire burning for a taste of you - don't think twice, get down and shake your hot body.
The amount of contact is not the only thing that varies.
Apparel may be colorful as well.
The dancer may be totally nude, topless, wear sexy lingerie or be fully clothed.
The seated partner will always remain fully clothed Full-contact lap dancing usually involves sensual bumping and grinding.
It's not uncommon for the receiving end to be brought to orgasm throughout the dance.
When performed in clubs, contact between dancer and customer is regulated.
Intensity varies according to local laws and club rules, ranging from "air dances" with minimal or no contact to "full-contact" which involves genital contact through clothes.
Remember, this teasing should not be mutual.
Your partner should not be allowed to touch you as freely as you touch him.