Has that hot guy finally asked you out on a date and you're wondering whether you should have sex with him right away or not? Are you afraid that he won't want to see you again if you don't give him what he wants? Do you feel like sex is the surest quality you have to offer? Sex is vital to any loving relationship, but figuring out when to embark on that sexual relationship is just as important.
Every woman knows that men enjoy sex.
This has lead many women to think that the best way to get a man is by using sex.
Makes sense, right? No, not really.
It is great if you want to have a man in your bed for the night, maybe even a steady stream of hot, passionate dates.
But in the long run that passion will die down and so with the relationship.
But despite this, women fear losing the guy if sex doesn't enter the picture soon enough.
Is this due to insecurity, lack of self assuredness or simply years of seeing sex splattered all over the place and coming to think that it is just commonplace and quite normal to sleep with a guy without a moment's thought? Trust that you are worth more than that and know that the man you deserve will be willing to go through a few chaste dates with you.
He will want to know more about you and will want to face the challenge of convincing you that he merits you more than any other man around you.
And here's something you may not have thought about: you're creating a mass of sexual tension that will drive him so nuts; he'll be putty in your hands.
So if the question of the day is to have sex now or later, give your relationship a true chance at success by keeping it for a little later.
You don't have to wait a year, just enough dates to know that he really is the guy for you.