Can I save my marriage before it becomes yet another statistic, whereby half of all marriages in the United States end in divorce? Perhaps you can, and working together we would like to see you successfully stop divorce and rebuild a healthy marriage.

No one gets married planning to one day divorce, yet few actually formulate a plan for a happy marriage either. The phrase "we will live on love" is all too common among engaged couples, but reality sets in all too soon once the marriage is under way.

Divorce is often feared for the economic impact it will have on your life, but actually it is the emotional impact that should concern you most.

While it is common to feel a bit of panic when you feel you may be forced with a divorce, what you actually need right now is calm, rational thinking and perhaps some good advice.

Start by determining just how imminent a divorce really is. If a recent heated argument prompted you to wonder "can I save my marriage" then you perhaps are just in the early stages of rescuing your relationship.

If, however, you have just been served divorce papers and possibly were not even aware of the proceedings at all, then it is time for you not to panic but to shift into high gear and stop divorce in its tracks.

Some people feel concern for the health of their marriage just because life is not as rosy and blissful as they expected. If that is the case with you then I am sorry to say you were greatly misinformed.

A marriage is comprised of two imperfect people in an imperfect world, and as the saying goes, "life is what happens when you had other plans". It is perfectly normal for you and your spouse to have some problems in your marriage that need to be worked through.

The issue that causes many marriages to deteriorate into divorce is that one or both spouses handle those problems poorly. Ideally, both of you should work together as a team to solve your problems but all too often one or the other or both of you seek to place blame on your spouse.

This "blame game" causes anger, resentment and can foster a need for retribution; and it all spirals downward from there.

If "can I save my marriage" weighs heavily upon your mind, take action right now to repair your relationship and regain the happiness you once had or hoped for.

We can help you determine what steps will work for saving your marriage before it is too late.

Get specific ideas of what you can do to stop divorce while saving your marriage at http://www.RelationshipAdviceHelp.com.