Do you ever struggle with how to keep a relationship going with a guy? Are you good at catching a guy's attention, only to have him lose interest in a few weeks or months? Would you be willing to follow expert advice to improve your relationship? If you're like a lot of women, figuring out what it takes to keep a guy is a mystery.
One minute, he seems hot; the next minute, stone cold.
Every relationship has its stages, and in order to keep yours going for the long haul, you need to have a better understanding of what works at each stage.
Once you follow the suggestions below, you'll know how to keep a relationship going at any stage! Stage #1: Getting his attention Before a relationship can really begin, you must make a connection.
Practice the art of flirting, so that you are using your best feminine skills to attract his attention.
After all, you're just following Mother Nature.
As a rose uses its bright colors and lovely scent to attract a butterfly, you must use the rules of attraction to your advantage.
Always look your best, and remember the value of good eye contact, a nice laugh, and a gentle touch.
You'll prove that you know how to keep a relationship going when you flirt like an expert.
Stage #2: Getting to know each other Once you capture a guy's attention, you want to hold it.
To accomplish this, you must both continue to flirt and keep the "newness" of the relationship, while getting to know him and letting him really get to know you.
Don't open up too much, too fast.
Men are less emotion-oriented and more goal-oriented, so this isn't the point to share everything that you have every thought or felt.
But this is a good time to begin to learn and share common interests.
You both like tennis? Schedule a court! You'll once again prove that you know how to keep a relationship going when you focus on common interests.
Stage #3: Getting comfortable with each other Okay, so you've caught his attention, gotten to know him, and now you're starting to feel really comfortable together.
Here's the good news and the bad news: The good news is that you've made it to a deeper place in the relationship.
The bad news is that you're in a potential danger zone.
After all, you don't want him to get too comfortable with you - so much so that he takes you for granted or starts to lose interest.
The solution is simple: continue to treat the relationship like it's new - with lots of flirtation, conversation, and stimulating activities.
At the same time you're doing this, enjoy the feeling of comfort you get with someone you've really gotten to know.
You'll prove most of all that you know how to keep a relationship going when you balance comfort with excitement - they're not mutually exclusive! During any stage of a relationship, there is a chance that it may falter.
It's important to not only catch a guy's eye, but to make constructive efforts to maintain your man's interest.
The added benefit of these techniques: he'll be more motivated to work on the relationship as well.
You will definitely prove that you know how to keep a relationship going when you find your man working harder to keep your attention, too!