For most men, a break up is an experience drenched with hardships. It can be not easy to go to bed at night, enjoy food or take part in any day-to-day thing that you would normally do. The worrying dominates every aspect of your day.

In this brief article I really want to go over possibly the most common concern when thinking about getting an ex girlfriend or wife back into your life.

During all of my experiences consulting guys during relationship separations, the single largest worry they have is that she will find someone new and move on. These guys are worried about the always feared rebound relationship.

If for some reason you haven't encountered the phrase "rebound relationship" in your life, it is really only a phrase that covers when a person gets straight into into a new relationship the second after a previous one ends.

The issue remains, is this insecurity justified? If she has been going on dates with some other guy is it worth your time to worry? The factual solution to these questions is an emphatic no.

The thought process behind this is that the odds are favoring you. It's been proven that 80-90 percent of these quickly formed relationships don't last in the weeks and months to come. It's due to the fact that it is a quickly created relationship often formed on nothing but mere physical attraction. There's no strong attraction or serious connection to the relationship.

If you are concentrated on getting an ex back and she's hanging out with another guy, then it is actually a good thing! I understand that might strike you as crazy but it isn't at all. It's because the numbers are on your side, and this other person also has a tough disadvantage. This guy has no idea what really makes your ex upset or happy. He certainly hasn't figured her out yet. Obviously this sets the man up for a challenge from the start.

In addition to this, going out with a new person is an awkward event in most situations. This discomfort will cause her to crave a situation that is comfortable. So what is representing comfort in her mind? It has to be you.

Now that we've covered what's important about her rebound relationship, you need to ensure that you will in now way wander into the same problem. Simply be aware of the figures and concepts I've discussed has you ready. A more important thing to keep in mind is that if you do date other women casually, and you really should, then set well thought out limits and intentions behind each date. Doing this will provide a very comfortable, laid back and laughter filled situation, and you will not be feeling like you need to be wary about finding your way into something serious.

My wish is that this overview has helped you feel better about what is maybe on of the largest insecurities that come with getting an ex back.