Can you get back together with your ex husband? The surveys say, "Yes!" Did you know that over 95% of relationships can be fixed? It's true that most people want to get back together with their ex. However, pride or the situation keep them from doing so. If you want to get your ex husband back, you will need to make the first move.

You may not know this, but 95% of couples that break up have a chance of getting back together. You see, we as humans have a natural desire for things to stay the same. A break up is traumatic for most people, so it's likely that your ex wants to get back together again. Therefore, barring any major problems, you will get your ex back if you follow these three simple rules.

First, you need to take care of yourself, inside and out. If you don't like yourself, it's hard to convince other people to like you. But if you are self-confident and full of life, you will attract others to you, including your ex. So spend some time before you contact your ex working on yourself.

Second, you need to take responsibility for your actions. Generally, when a relationship ends, both people are at fault to some degree. Recognize where you went wrong, and be prepared to apologize to your ex. This will help him to see you in a new light and reconsider the relationship.

Third, don't be needy. If you are calling your ex all the time or stalking him, he's not going to want you back. Think about it - did you act that way at the beginning of your relationship? Chances are, you didn't. But many people think that they can beg their way back into their ex's heart, and that just doesn't work. Instead, just be that person he fell in love with initially, and you'll be 75% of the way back to getting together again.

To get back your ex husband, you need to be the one who attempts to reconcile. This is because most people will not start the process of reconciliation. They feel that they will lose face by doing so. However, a relationship is not about who is right and who is wrong. A relationship is about being right together.

If you've been calling him all the time, you need to stop. Right now, you're just harassing him. Generally, it's best to give your ex a cooling off period of a few weeks before you contact him again. This lets his emotions settle, which will allow him to think about things in a more rational manner.

So while you are waiting, take some time to work on yourself. Make yourself more beautiful, inside and out. It's likely that you have been hurting by this breakup, so you need to spend a little bit of time on pampering yourself and restoring your self-esteem. If you see yourself as valuable, he will see you that way as well.

After a few weeks, contact him again. However, you need to do this in the right way. You don't want to come across as desperate or needy, but instead, you want to be the woman he fell in love with. Be confident, and things will fall into place.