In our modern time, it is becoming more difficult to appreciate the value of community. We live in an "I" culture where the values of individualism take priority over community. The relationship that is established no longer holds up to the test of time and can be easily broken. The bonding that occurs naturally in community gives way to a more fragmented and is loosely formed.

For example, it is easy to become selfish when we focus only on materials success. Looking after oneself and one's property become second nature. To thrive in a meritocratic environment, we strive to be the best, or at least better than others with lesser regards to friendship and teamwork. We condition ourselves to see our neighbors as competitors rather than friends. Where we try to gain the advantage over others, it is easy to become suspicious of one other's intentions. Accustomed to instant gratification, we become quickly impatient with others. Especially for those who are brought up in 'sheltered' families, we become intolerant to differences and tend to dismiss other people's perspectives.

Such attitudes carry over from our families into society at large. Armed conflict becomes the way nations resolve differences. Tendency to keep our own kind encourages racial and religious intolerance or prejudice. Such unfairness and imbalances in the world produces an ever widening gap between the rich and the poor.

Self-centeredness and isolation are inadequate to build a good society. Living in a community is not just a matter of existence. Everyone has the duty to promote and nourish stronger bonds and mutual esteem, cordiality and collaboration among the various types of people.

One has to work towards improving relationships at social, economic and public levels. At the social level, overcome the difficulty getting along with others due to differences by being the first to initiate reconciliation and extend friendship. Foreigners working in the country should be welcome into the community life. Be aware of our own prejudices towards those who are different whether it is in religious faith, race and language, sexual orientation, and so on. Build up the willingness to engage ion conversation with others who do not see life the same way as we do. Emphasize on building lasting relationships rather than on the need to win arguments or be right.
At the economic level, examine one own motivations in giving to charity. Do we give to raise ourselves above others, or do we give to raise others up? Become aware of where the poor exist in our neighborhoods, and explore ways to help them. Identify situations that deny the poor opportunities to better themselves and provide help to resolve them. Participate in any small steps to address systems and attitudes that benefit the wealthy at the expense of the poor. Contribute to raise the awareness about the economic inequalities.

Partake in public activities such as government and public organization sponsored programs that promote inter-racial and inter-religious harmony. Diligently impart values of loyalty and fairness to our children. Educate them to be good citizens who cherish relationships with neighboring cultural communities. Lend your time, effort and resources to organizations and groups that work to promote justice, peace, and human development.

Do your part towards society and community. No one is an island and we need to support each other for a better tomorrow.