It can be hard at first to try to figure out why it would be a good thing to have no contact with your ex girlfriend for a little while after the break up if you want to win her back, but I think that you'll see why it can be a good thing when you are done with this article. Now, understand that sometimes the best thing that you can do is to have limited contact, because there are situations where you have to have some interaction with her and that cannot be avoided. So, if that seems to describe your circumstances, limiting contact as much as possible is the next best thing.

AVOIDING POST BREAK UP ARGUMENTS -

This is one of the biggest benefits and most compelling reasons for having no contact with your ex girlfriend right after the break up if you want to win her back. Post break up, the feelings and the emotions are still pretty strong. That can mean that you can harbor some anger or animosity or she might be harboring anger and animosity and that can lead to words being said that neither one of you really mean or would love to be able to take back later on. Having limited or no contact allows you to avoid that hot period right after the break up and that is probably one of the most compelling reasons for adhering to this principle.

SEEING IF YOU REALLY WANT HER BACK -

Another thing that you want to do is to see if you really do want her back. Right after the break up, the reflex is probably going to be to say that you want to get her back. However, you might change the way that you feel after some time has passed. On the other hand, if you DON'T change the way that you feel and you still DO want her back, then you kind of know that the feeling is real and that it is probably something that you should try to do, or else you'll be forced to live with the regret of not knowing what could have been if you don't try to win her back.

FINDING A BETTER WAY TO WIN HER BACK -

You also give yourself time to figure out a better way than what most guys try to do to win back their ex girlfriend. You see, most guys DON'T succeed at coming up with a good plan of action to get their ex girlfriend back and so, it just doesn't happen for them. Or if it does, it's a really rough ride for them. It does NOT have to be that way for you. When you have time to come up with a GOOD plan of action to win her back, it can actually be kind of easy. And that is what you can do with the time that you have when you limit or have no contact with your ex girlfriend. You can find a better way to win her back.